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Perfect! [Aug. 31st, 2005|04:14 pm]
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[bitchin_moanin]
I have never seen something so perfect. Here I am bitchin & moanin about my Poly life, and lo and behold what do I find???

Here is a little intro and then on to my bitch of the day

Poly for 7 years in a FFM triad. Although we have been more of a V for a couple of years now. I am the "other" woman attached to an already married couple.

Our relationship has been extremely rocky as of late. I am not getting along with my g/f AT ALL. I can't even call her my friend right now. Even though my relationship with the husband is strong, even that has been suffering from it too.

We always argue about money & general housekeeping rules. I am at my wits end. Any suggestions on how to set up some our finances 3 ways besides by thirds? I work 2 jobs, go to school and make the least amount of money in the house but pay almost 70% of the mortgage along with my own expenses related to personal debt (car, credit cards, gym etc.). Literally every penny is accounted for in my budget but yet I am always being chastised for not contributing to extracirricular activites.

I have a low tolerance for messes, however I am the first person to leave for work and the last person to arrive home for the day. Am I being unreasonable for assuming that someone else is going to cook & clean by the time I roll in at 7pm? On the weekends I am always cooking & cleaning up, seems fair to me.

Someone please either validate my feelings or tell me to shut the hell up. I am just frustrated. Help!
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From: bitchin_moanin
2005-09-01 12:55 am (UTC)
Yes we have had the conversation and I have asked for assistance but never receive it. But I think a total rearrangement of the bill situation is in order.

It was supposed to be "our" house, but they have horrible credit and I only qualified. It was a deal we couldn't pass up.

As far as the chores, nothing has ever been formally arranged. Just common courtesy, if you make a mess clean it up. But that isn't working either.

Feh
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