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common practice [Mar. 27th, 2006|03:13 am]
Poly Bitchings


Is it the practice of all polyamorous men to sleep with the babysitter?

Despite our arrangements, my boyfriend has done it twice. I mean seriously, I'm afraid to get a baysitter under the age of 50!

[User Picture]From: cerulean_me
2006-03-27 10:32 am (UTC)
Ick! I'm sorry. That sucks...

So, if he's banging the sitter... who's watching the kids?
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[User Picture]From: eris
2006-10-10 05:01 pm (UTC)
This is an old entry I see, but you didn't really get much response.

I assume you weren't giving permission and he was just being a horndog, in which case I hope you had discussions and made arrangements about what makes you both most comfortable. Otherwise, it's still cheating.
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[User Picture]From: brigittefires
2006-10-10 08:05 pm (UTC)
well in the instance I was specifically referring to, the actual incident had been months before (and yes there was clear communication both ways, it's a question of me being honest about my feelings and him clearly communicating a lie about his... *sigh*), but I was dealing with the fact that said babysitter was about to have his baby, conceived when he was NOT supposed to be sleeping with her.

But I've washed my hands of that guy and the entire situation, and much happier for it. Now I have a boyfriend who doesn't lie to me about his behavior OR his feelings--even if I don't like what I'm hearing, at least it's honest and we can deal with the situation like adults.

Thanks for the response though. It's always good to have a reminder of the previous bad to shed a little more light on the current good...
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[User Picture]From: eris
2006-10-10 08:12 pm (UTC)
Craziness. Well strangerwhoseentryIrandomlyranacross, It's really nifty that this little bit of livejournal time travel had such a result.
Yay for nowboyfriend!
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